Letter: ‘Bout the same as me

To the editor:

‘Bout the same as me.

I grew up thinking everyone was ’bout the same as me

Two brothers and a sister and a black and white TV;

Lived with family all around us, had no notion we were poor

Food always on the table, no wolf knocking at the door;

My mother she taught English, Dad a teller at the bank

Though we never had much money, we had plenty to give thanks;

My Mom was educated, expected nothing less of me

Required to do my homework, before watching Andy Griffith on TV;

Chores always a requirement, hard work a constant aim

Learned the value of a dollar and saving for a day of rain;

Taught that we were all God’s children, with parents always went to church

Family, God and Country were ’bout as much as all was worth;

Financial struggles as a family, instilled in me a will to rise

But knew how near or far life takes me, always treasured in God’s eyes;

My brother Jason a ball player, played ball with Jason Hughes

My friend’s name was Marlin, always certain to amuse;

They both came from black families but seemed about the same as us

Never saw a difference in good friends we love and trust;

Used no bad word for a black man, nor allowed a racial slur

Our family loved and honored neighbors, as yes some black they were;

Not till college did I hear that word racist ever used

I had trouble comprehending that there were people still abused;

Learned our nation’s hateful history was still the life that some still knew

But did not think much about it, ’cause for me nothing was askew;

Lived most of my adulthood thinking we were always gaining ground

That those people still complaining just liked to make a noisy sound;

Then with the world I watched in horror, and we all began to seethe

Watched the killing of a black man who was not allowed to breathe;

How for twenty dollars could any man be dead?

No longer blinded to the plight of those who live a life of dread;

We must be forever changed by what we were all appalled to see;

Must always look at others knowing he’s ’bout the same as me.

R.J. McConnell

Franklin